The day was coming to an end, and I still had not found the answer to the question that arose in the morning. There was very little time left before the important event. After spending 8 hours of working time thinking, I still didn’t make a decision.
The question was what to give to the person who has everything?
The other day I found out that my friend’s birthday is coming soon. In addition, I am invited to the gala celebration. And given the fact that I always prefer to give original gifts, individually selected and appropriate to the occasion, the problem of choosing a suitable present arose on my way.
Igor (my friend) is a wealthy businessman who has both solid capital and impressive life experience behind him.
One day it was interesting to watch his reaction to my story about a trip to France, considering that he usually visits there every few months. And I visited Paris for the first time, fulfilling a seven-year-old dream. I excitedly talked about my impressions, and he only smiled sweetly in response. Even then, I wondered how I could surprise this man. But he appreciated the souvenir I brought. It was the Eiffel Tower, which spun on a stand and sparkled with all the colors of the rainbow.
Accordingly, the news of his birthday unsettled me.
I decided to approach the issue thoroughly, because I wanted to really surprise the birthday boy, and not give him a banal present, as often happens. Armed with a notepad, pen and two days of free time, I took decisive action.
First step. We are drawing up a portrait of our wonderful person who has everything.
Igor. 37 years. An economist by training. The owner of a restaurant, two apartments in the city center and a dacha in an amazing location (I know nothing about the rest of his properties). He is interested in food tasting, tennis, and collecting wines. He often goes on business trips abroad. Loves Croatia. Loves football.
That's probably all I knew about him. There is not much material for reflection, but something has already emerged.
Second step. From the existing portrait we write an approximate list where you can see suitable original things.
I got the following option:
Literature: on the restaurant business (live and learn!), on wines.
Business gifts
Useful things for frequent business trips or travel
Third step. We determine the amount within which we can purchase a gift.
Fourth step. We choose where and how we will buy a present.
I didn't know exactly where I would find the gift. Therefore, I first went to online shopping sites that offer a huge selection of a wide variety of things. After carefully looking through the business gifts sections, I decided that it was too boring. Such gifts should be given on other occasions. But here a more personal gift was required, reminding the person of something joyful.
Books are wonderful. But, after thinking about it, I came to the conclusion that a person as busy as he is is unlikely to find much time to read.
The only option left was to look for something related to hobbies.
The choice fell on football.
After spending three hours, I bought, in my opinion, what I needed. I purchased two charming beer mugs at once - that is, I marked the beginning of the creation of a collection. Why mugs?
It’s just that Igor really likes to watch football with his friends in his bar - with a glass of beer.
...We celebrated his birthday in his own restaurant. As I expected, my gift did not go unnoticed. Igor was happy and surprised. I myself did not expect that I would be able to find an original gift for a person who has everything. And now he has a new hobby - collecting beer mugs. But those two take pride of place on the bar counter, and the bartender already knows one hundred percent where to pour beer when watching a football match
So everything turned out to be not so difficult.
First of all, you need to think about what a person loves, what he does in his free time, perhaps collects something. The gift most likely should not be work related. A person who has everything, most often has little free time. Accordingly, a present that distracts from business thoughts will be more pleasant.
In addition, try to mentally live one day in his life, play the roles that he has to play during the day, think like a wealthy person, and it is likely that the answer to the question will come very quickly. The main thing is to choose something that will remind you of pleasant interests and hobbies.
If the gift is still more of a business nature, then let it highlight the person’s individuality. For example, you can engrave initials or an original inscription.
Or you can surprise a constantly busy person who has everything with some kind of perky gift. For example, giving him a pass to a water park, arranging skydiving, recording his own CD, and much more.
We'll talk about original gifts next time. Good luck with your choice!
It’s sad, of course, but any passion subsides over time, and family life slowly turns into something familiar and routine. Over the years of marriage, spouses learn each other by heart and gradually get used to their loved one.
However, such a habit can play a cruel joke if a woman looms on the horizon of a loved one - unfamiliar, and therefore interesting.
In order to protect yourself from such “strangers”, save your marriage and diversify your family life, it is important to throw new emotions into the cauldron of passion. And here an interesting question arises: how to surprise your husband in the kitchen, in bed, on his birthday, in order to turn into a mysterious person again.
The shortest distance to a man's heart is through the stomach. The wisdom is old, but modern married ladies often forget about it. And completely in vain!
Some representatives of the fair sex will begin to be indignant - they say, I’m already trying to cook various delicious things for my husband, so nothing can surprise him.
The average woman's gastronomic arsenal includes the simplest and most delicious dishes that are easy to prepare when she comes home from work.
If you know a lot about cooking, amaze your beloved man with a true masterpiece. For example, for dinner he will have pheasant with pineapples, turkey roll or something more exotic.
Good to know! If you decide to turn to recipes from foreign cuisine - say, Indian, try organizing a themed dinner.
For example, put on a sari (in the absence of this clothing, use a pareo), turn on folk music and draw a circle on your forehead. It will turn out unusual and very cute.
Change yourself
Another option on how to surprise your husband lies on the surface. Try a radical change in your look. Why does it have to be cardinal, you ask? A man is unlikely to be surprised by slightly shortened hair or extended nails. Representatives of the stronger sex rarely pay attention to such “little things”.
Therefore, you need to try to make an impression. For a stunning effect you can:
- dye your hair blonde (or vice versa);
- braid dreadlocks;
- apply a temporary tattoo with his initials;
- get a piercing.
Of course, it is important not to overdo it with changes so that your husband recognizes you when he returns from work. Joke!
In fact, the surprise should be pleasant. If your loved one does not like red-haired ladies, it is hardly worth appearing before him with fiery hair.
On your birthday you can and should surprise your loved one. If you can afford, for example, a trip to Paris, your room for maneuver increases significantly.
However, even with limited financial resources, there is a chance to show imagination.
Any original “trifle” that will definitely surprise a man can be a birthday gift:
- paired T-shirts with unusual designs (in the form of your and his portraits);
- a gifted book by your favorite author with an oath of allegiance signed by you;
- a poem about him, your relationship, happiness and feelings for him, written by you personally;
- a photo album or collage with the best photos of the guy and with flirty captions for them;
- painted on asphalt with washable paint (be respectful of neighbors and housing and communal services workers);
- an evening spent in a luxurious hotel room;
- a relaxing massage and an amazing dinner for a man who has returned tired from work.
There are many interesting ideas for birthday gifts, but only you have studied your boyfriend well, so it’s up to you to choose the best gift in the world.
By the way, you don’t have to wait for any occasion in the form of a holiday to give your gift.
Give it at the beginning of the week so that your spouse will be in a good mood until next Monday.
For men, the quality (and quantity) of intimate life with their significant other plays a huge role. Try playing intimate strings to bring back old emotions into family relationships.
According to experienced ladies, just one passionate evening is enough to rekindle the old intense feelings.
First of all, you need to decide for yourself what experiments you can go to in order to surprise a man in bed. Let’s say you put on a nurse’s or schoolgirl’s costume without shame, but who can guarantee that your beloved will not consider such “mask shows” to be banal vulgarity.
If you want to surprise your spouse with a private dance like this for his birthday, try to find out how he feels about such events. You don’t want to look ridiculous and funny in front of your beloved man?
If you are firmly convinced that any of your initiatives in bed will be approved by your spouse, you can safely begin to implement your plan. We offer several options, although the list can be continued endlessly:
1. Have the striptease we already mentioned before a hot night. Prepare for such a gift in advance, so you will need:
- several strip plastic classes;
- sexy lingerie;
- erotic musical accompaniment;
- verified and rehearsed movements.
2. Various role-playing games provide wonderful variety to married life. There are many variations of “costume performances”, even based on various children's fairy tales. But here, too, certain rules must be followed:
- buy or sew yourself a costume that suits the scenario (it should be depraved, not funny);
- conduct several rehearsals in front of the mirror to better enter the role of “nurse”, “strict teacher”, etc.;
- act according to the role to impress the man;
- For some spouses, it’s better to prepare a little for the upcoming event, otherwise you risk amusing rather than exciting them.
3. Try new sexual positions with your loved one on his birthday or just for no reason. This will not only amaze the guy, but will also significantly diversify further sexual family life. To surprise your husband with new poses, do the following:
- refer to the relevant literature or visit thematic sites;
- tell your partner in advance that you are tired of the monotony and are thinking about something new (this way you will understand his reaction);
- Directly invite your man to try new positions after an exciting massage or a casual romantic dinner.
4. Romantic sex on silk sheets in bed, although it remains a classic, is unlikely to surprise anyone. You can try to spice things up by making love in unexpected places. If you are inclined to public places, exclude the appearance of random passers-by in them. The order of your actions is as follows:
- imagine where you would like to make love (in the back seat of a car, on the shore of a lake, in a forest clearing, in the last row of a movie theater);
- prepare the necessary supplies if required for this process;
- All that remains is to bring your beloved to this place and explain why you came here.
Since not everyone is ready for global experiments in bed, try making tiny changes to your sex life at first. This could include new caresses, movements, music, or, on the contrary, silence in bed. The main thing is to let it remain a surprise for your beloved guy.
Some women, pondering the question of how to surprise their husband, begin to come up with very extreme surprises.
However, you can cheer up your spouse without expensive and crazy gifts. The most important thing is to leave the man in the dark, then he will consider you, his beloved woman, a real mystery and will not be bored next to you.
What else should you not forget? To make your married life play with bright colors and emotions, try to spend your weekends and leisure time together as varied as possible. Arrange original dates for your guy more often, for example, in the form of:
- going to a hockey or football match;
- romantic trip to nature;
- full-day excursion trip;
- boat ride.
In addition, it is important not to get hung up on one image, but to change periodically, surprising your lover with a new hairstyle, makeup and clothing style. The only condition is that the updated image must suit you and not cause rejection in a man.
I would like to remind you that you can surprise your chosen one with a couple of kind words or a gentle kiss in the morning. If you begin to notice that family life is like two neighbors living together, return dynamism to the relationship. Show your feelings and affection with small surprises, surprise your husband with gifts and affection in bed, and your partner’s attention will belong only to you.
Sometimes you want to do something out of the ordinary so that the jaws of those around you drop in surprise. Yes, somehow everything doesn’t work out with this!..
It is worth noting that the surprise of people is a rather controversial topic, because it can be viewed in both a positive and negative light. We will, perhaps, consider in detail only the first option - how pleasant it is to surprise people (and without me there are enough individuals who will teach bad things).
So what should you do?
Bring a charge of vigor and positivity!
We will not start with surprise, but simply with a good mood, which, like a virus, has the ability to be transmitted from one person to another.
If you start your day with a smile and a positive attitude, then just by looking at you you can charge others with energy and enthusiasm (although I understand how difficult it is to be excited about a new day at 6:30 in the morning after two hours of sleep!..). And you not only give your energy to people, but also receive it in return, and in much larger quantities.
In this case, the recipe is simple:
Given: you are happy and satisfied with life. And you are ready to share this mood with others (or strive for this, because happy people often have the desire to make everyone around them happy).
Solution: you give your smile to people, and they smile back at you.
Result: everyone is happy!
Shocking
Today it is too difficult to surprise someone. Our generation has already seen, heard, felt so much that it seems to be ready for anything. If, for example, an alien ship arrives today and we are captured by aliens, it will not be such a surprise. Some will finally be able, happy, to run down the street and shout: “I told you they exist!” Others will say that these are the machinations of enemy intelligence or government experiments. And the rest will perceive aliens as ordinary occupiers and will not attach any importance to the fact that they are from another planet.
And what difference does it make who is from which planet? We have enough eccentrics on Earth too! If you want to be known as the epitome of outrageousness, here are a few options:
- Unusual accessories and clothing items (everyone remembers Katya Osadchaya’s hats?);
- Lack of clothes (although this too will surprise few people);
- Classic - a clown costume (or any other character). If you show up for a job like this, everyone will definitely be surprised (unless, of course, you work as a clown!);
- Tattoos and/or piercings all over your body (perhaps you are so determined to surprise that you are ready to endure any pain!..);
- Give gifts, flowers or give out candy to strangers on the street (however, do not overdo it, otherwise they may mistake you for some kind of maniac. Or they will see a catch in your actions. So decide: do you want to surprise people or scare them away from you?).
In general, in order to really surprise people, it is necessary to do something that goes beyond the knowledge and imagination of ordinary inhabitants of our planet. And is it worth trying to surprise everyone?
Drastic changes
If you are not “attacking” the whole world, but want to surprise your loved ones, then the best way to do this is to do an act that they do not expect from you. We all have a certain pattern of behavior that we follow (often not even consciously). And an action that does not fit into this model will be the very act that can surprise your loved ones.
For example, if you have never listened and have always been on your own, they will be extremely surprised if you suddenly start listening and even following your stepfather's advice. If you're a quiet person who's been reading about adventure all your life but is afraid to leave the house again, then your friends and family will be surprised when they find out that you ran away with a traveling circus (and then quit the circus and started hunting crocodiles). Or are you an anarchist who joined the communist party...
In general, use your imagination! However, remember that there is a very fine line between the desire to surprise and the desire to harm. In pursuit of the amazing, try not to risk anyone's health or life.
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You can tell your man “I love you” without words. I believe that there is nothing supernatural in unexpected signs of attention from a girl. As they say, “relationships are the work of two.”
Next, we will talk about effective ways to make a guy love you even more. Surprising a guy is easy and you need to do it constantly. From my own experience, I will say that relationships will never turn into routine everyday life if you always surprise a man with your behavior, habits, and little surprises. Naturally, we will surprise our loved one in a positive way.
Do you both spend a lot of time at work and only see each other in the evenings or on weekends? Maintaining such relationships is always more difficult. Give your loved one even minor signs of attention. They will make him smile during a hard day and remind him of his soulmate.
I recommend just writing nice words to the young man in an SMS message. You shouldn't write memoirs. It is enough to describe your feelings for him, wish him a good day and ask about his success. Put care and understanding into a few lines of text. Such a gesture will undoubtedly surprise the guy and make him think about the girl all day.
During my practice, I have counseled various men. Each of them has their own problems, type of temperament and character. However, all guys have fairly simple relationship needs. Take care of your loved one and he will love you even more.
I advise you to analyze your behavior. Yes, no one is perfect, but we can always control the negative aspects of our character. If you allow yourself to make trouble or be too demanding, quickly get rid of it. The young man will be surprised when he sees that there are fewer disagreements and you are making concessions to him.
Amaze a man with external changes and skills:
Buy yourself a new good perfume. A pleasant floral or sweet aroma will only emphasize your femininity. The young man will notice your changes and will be surprised by the positive changes;
Swap your usual home attire for an exquisite silk robe. It shouldn’t be vulgar, but there’s no need for robes stained with food;
Learn to cook. I am constantly improving my culinary skills, but don’t forget that relationships don’t end with delicious dishes;
Change your hairstyle. I have heard many times how girls complain that a man did not even pay attention to a new haircut or hair color. They notice everything, it’s just that men don’t always focus on it. Don't forget to add light makeup to your new hairstyle;
Manicure. I’ll tell you a secret, all men pay attention to a girl’s hands. Well-groomed nails are a sign of your self-care. And everyone, as you know, pays attention only to well-groomed girls. You don't have to give yourself a vampire nails manicure that's too long. Even a simple French jacket will highlight your femininity.
Go to a movie together, go to a skating rink, or just ride bikes in warm weather. Even such banal ways to diversify leisure time really help to surprise a young man.
Go for a walk with him, find a cozy clearing and surprise your loved one in the form of a pre-prepared treat.
A good gift is another way to surprise a guy. The gift must correspond to the interests of the man. Take a closer look at what he spends the most time on. Listening to music? Give a CD from your favorite artist. Plays guitar? Then a set of new strings or beautiful picks will do.
I recommend that you learn to listen to your man. This will help you not to make a mistake with a gift. He will be glad when he sees your attention in the form of the right gift. Give the guy not only material gifts, but also emotions! Sometimes they are so lacking in a relationship. Don’t forget to please your loved one, listen to him and enjoy the process of choosing a gift.
A man's hobby is the key to his heart. Share the guy's interests. You can surprise him by giving him two tickets to his favorite team's game or band concert. Many men go to the gym. If you don't go there with him yet, I recommend that you buy two passes and give one of them to the guy. He will be happy about your desire to spend time together and improve your body.
Talk to him about interesting topics. Don’t be shy to express your point of view and talk to him about everything. Support the guy in his aspirations.
If it is not possible to buy a ticket to a game or a gym membership, there are other ways to share the interests of your loved one. I often advise girls not to be upset by lack of finances. You can always buy the guy a few bottles of his beer or other drink. Find out when his favorite team's game will be broadcast on TV.
The young man will be pleasantly surprised when he sees that you have prepared him a small, but such a good surprise. Watch the game with him, try to understand what is happening, but it is better not to ask too many questions. This will distract him from watching. Just rejoice with him and show him that you care.
You've probably heard this platitude more than once, but let's face it. How often have you and your boyfriend arranged a romantic dinner for each other and an evening viewing of your favorite movie?
The beauty of this sign of attention is in creating an unforgettable homely atmosphere. Yes, yes, dinner should be held at home. Don't go to a restaurant, but just give each other a little attention in a calm atmosphere. Your task is to prepare a delicious dinner that the young man will remember. Don't use boring recipes for dishes that you eat every day.
Serve your boyfriend's favorite dish by improving the recipe. Don't forget to bake a delicious dessert and buy some good wine. It is important that dinner becomes not a banal meal, but a beautiful and bright event. I believe that a guy will be surprised by your care and tenderness, and not by your vulgar behavior.
Tip: After dinner, you can move to the living room to watch a romantic film or comedy. Think about the first movie you saw together in the cinema. Watching it again is guaranteed to “transport” you to your first date.
I always say that a woman should not be an open book. This phrase may be banal, but that’s how it is. By discovering new facets of each other, you build strong relationships. A man is always interested in learning new things about you. Showing signs of attention will not only surprise him, but will also confirm that you are the best girl.
Relationships are not only pleasant and interesting, but also labor-intensive. You need to constantly work on them, because if at some point you want to stop, your partner may lose interest in you forever. To ensure that such a terrible situation never happens in your life, we advise you to do unusual things more often. How you can surprise your beloved guy so that he never wants to leave you, we will decide today.
Surprise is a kind of emotion. It can give both positive and negative impressions. In any case, the moment when a person experiences surprise, he remembers for a long time.
Therefore, in order for boring gray days to turn into bright colors, you need to surprise your loved ones and yourself as often as possible. What, sometimes you live your whole life and don’t even know that you can break down the door and get onto the roof of the building.
Why do this?
As we said earlier, relationships need to be worked on. Absolutely every couple experiences one scenario of a love relationship. As soon as we start dating a person, we are simply bursting with interest and new impressions. We are constantly surprised, because previously this person was simply unknown to us. Over time, we get what we wanted - close relationships and even love.
But over time, when all the cards are revealed, so to speak, next to us there is a person with whom it seems good, but somehow not so much. The thing is that we simply stop receiving new emotions. You can put up with such a routine and wait until one of your partners gets tired of it. However, if you value your relationship with your significant other, we advise you to get ready to surprise the man you love.
If a girl, even after a long relationship with a guy, periodically surprises him with her actions, desires and words, then boredom will never arise in the relationship.
Methods
Let's decide right away that you can surprise a person only after some communication with him. When you come to your first meeting, under no circumstances try to surprise the young man, otherwise he will think that you are crazy. For the first meeting, dress nicely and be yourself so that everyone has the right opinion about each other.
The only way you can really surprise a guy is to be the first to ask him to go on a date.
Men often just watch, hope and wait to be invited. So show your considerable courage and determination. If there has been sympathy between you for a long time, feel free to take the first step.
Although, in principle, you can always surprise. For example, if you do something weird on the first date, you will forever discourage this guy from dating you. But sometimes it’s so difficult to get rid of an annoying fan. Show up on a date with him in a terrible outfit and behave rudely and uncultured. In general, do everything that makes the guy nervous.
We're shocked!
For those who want to use surprise as a way to end a relationship, we suggest considering the following tips.
Men love to eat delicious food. Therefore, you can easily surprise him by preparing a delicious dish. Let it be meat, not desserts. Since most guys are much more indifferent to sweets than women. Just decorate your dish with cute dishes and interior.
Organize everything like in a five-star restaurant. If you don’t know how to cook, the more your loved one will be surprised by your dish. A little recommendation: prepare a recipe in which you can taste the dish before serving. So that if something happens, you can avoid a shameful situation.
If your boyfriend is actively involved in the gym, and you are the type of girl who is far from physical activity, but naturally beautiful, you can surprise him by signing up for. Just don’t let it be the same gym that your man visits. The guy wants to be alone during class, you should respect this decision. And the fact that his girlfriend wants to improve her physical shape will greatly cheer him up.
Surprise the guy with your determination. Find a good job, read books and spend money on good things. Let him see that you are striving for an independent financial life. This surprises and pleases men.
If you have been in a relationship for a long time, and objectively looking at yourself in the mirror, you cannot call yourself the most irresistible girl in the world, then believe me, the young man has the same thoughts. It's time to take charge of your appearance, update your wardrobe, do your hair and stylish makeup. Better yet, sign up for a session with a cosmetologist.
Spontaneously give your loved one a small gift. Let these be tickets to a concert or a movie. The main thing is that you take the initiative. To prevent your gift from turning into a banal thing, it is important that your mood matches the event. At the concert, be relaxed, but not vulgar. And in the movies, be sure to kiss during the movie. And it doesn't matter how long you've known each other.
Making love with the same person is wonderful, especially if your partner is constantly striving to surprise and delight you. You can surprise your man with kisses. It just has to be unusual. Your kisses should spread all over your body; for added spice, you can first tie your partner (but this is only with his consent). Such games will allow you to find erogenous zones on his body that you had never even thought about before.
Guys idolize women who take initiative in bed. Only your desires should be voiced sexually, and not in a commanding tone. After all, he is your partner, not a subordinate. Offer new poses, and even bold experiments. Make suggestions gently, but without losing your sexuality.
You can surprise your partner with a gorgeous tattoo. And you can have a lot of fun with the help. Buy the necessary paints and invite your partner to paint you, believe me, it is very exciting.
In general, to surprise your soulmate, it is enough to do things that are unusual for you. The only main thing is that you are organic and not look stupid and clumsy. It all depends on your self-confidence. Making love in nature is a cool experiment, as long as you don't look scared the whole time. Therefore, first understand yourself and decide whether you are really ready to surprise the man you love.
