Often, ordinary girls are often dressed quite provocatively. But do you really dare to think that these girls want men to stare at them? No no and one more time no! What will they say if you hint at their desire to meet in this way?
Narration and explanations come from a female perspective
I just want to show off my beautiful athletic body
Let those who are fat and ugly hide! This is very common in more or less expensive gyms. Of course, I understand that it looks attractive. But I will never believe that a lady does not know how she looks in the eyes of men. Of course he does. And what's more, she enjoys it!
I'm just hot.
Yeah, that's what we believed. Moreover, the best protection from the scorching sun is not a straw hat, not covered shoulders, but certainly a short skirt or shorts that fits your needs. Many girls are so eagerly waiting for summer to show off all their charms, but as soon as you glance sideways at her cleavage, she will destroy you with her gaze.
I just want to look smart
Moreover, for some reason, the degree of festiveness of an outfit for many is determined by the long skirt. I don’t know what they do there at corporate events in this form, but the trend is visible. If you say it's short, she'll roll her eyes at you. What should I do now, put the bag on myself?
I just want to highlight the advantages of my appearance
This phrase is especially loved by those who prefer a deep neckline and push-up bra. I read somewhere that when a woman wears a high-cut blouse and a breast-lifting bra, she loses the right to complain about men’s gaze. And to be honest, I agree with this!
Why should I make excuses to anyone? I dressed for myself!
I just love walking around like this! Do what you want with me, but it’s absolutely impossible for yourself to ride in our public transport like this! Your feet simply stick to the seats!
Yes, everyone here walks like that... Why so-and-so?
In a vacant lot? At night? One by one?
A woman dressed sexually outside the home, whether she wants it or not, evokes thoughts of herself as a sex object. Not because men are so bad, but because nature made them that way. Therefore, by appearing in this form, a woman not only gives the “green light” to violence and harassment, but greatly increases their likelihood, and if she is an adult woman, then she must remember this herself and take responsibility for it. And her husband’s desire to see her dressed modestly is just a continuation of his desire to protect her. Because, maybe, full-length skirts are both fanatical and unusual, but excessive openness doesn’t look any better. This is either a sex signal, or stupidity and inexperience. Or maybe an irresistible desire for attention?
Often, ordinary girls are often dressed quite provocatively. But do you really dare to think that these girls want men to stare at them? No no and one more time no! What will they say if you hint at their desire to meet in this way?
Narration and explanations come from a female perspective
I just want to show off my beautiful athletic body
Let those who are fat and ugly hide! This is very common in more or less expensive gyms. Of course, I understand that it looks attractive. But I will never believe that a lady does not know how she looks in the eyes of men. Of course he does. And what's more, she enjoys it!
I'm just hot.
Yeah, that's what we believed. Moreover, the best protection from the scorching sun is not a straw hat, not covered shoulders, but certainly a short skirt or shorts that fits your needs. Many girls are so eagerly waiting for summer to show off all their charms, but as soon as you glance sideways at her cleavage, she will destroy you with her gaze.
I just want to look smart
Moreover, for some reason, the degree of festiveness of an outfit for many is determined by the long skirt. I don’t know what they do there at corporate events in this form, but the trend is visible. If you say it's short, she'll roll her eyes at you. What should I do now, put the bag on myself?
I just want to highlight the advantages of my appearance
This phrase is especially loved by those who prefer a deep neckline and push-up bra. I read somewhere that a woman who wears a blouse with a large neckline and a bra that lifts her breasts loses the right to complain about men's gaze. And to be honest, I agree with this!
Why should I make excuses to anyone? I dressed for myself!
I just love walking around like this! Do what you want with me, but it’s absolutely impossible for yourself to ride in our public transport like this! Your feet simply stick to the seats!
Yes, everyone here walks like that... Why so-and-so?
In a vacant lot? At night? One by one?
A woman dressed sexually outside the home, whether she wants it or not, evokes thoughts of herself as a sex object. Not because men are so bad, but because nature made them that way. Therefore, by appearing in this form, a woman not only gives the “green light” to violence and harassment, but greatly increases their likelihood, and if she is an adult woman, then she must remember this herself and take responsibility for it. And her husband’s desire to see her dressed modestly is just a continuation of his desire to protect her. Because, maybe, full-length skirts are both fanatical and unusual, but excessive openness doesn’t look any better. This is either a sex signal, or stupidity and inexperience. Or maybe an irresistible desire for attention?
Why do you think some girls dress vulgarly?
Probably due to the spring, despite the snowfalls, the top posts are increasingly seeing posts about provocatively dressed women. And as always, there are debates about whether middle-aged and thin people can wear miniskirts, whether a decent woman should dress decently, and in general, what decent clothing is.
I want to say right away that the statements “clothes are just clothes” with the implication that clothes do not carry any collective information are unfounded. Everything carries information, especially clothing.
Imagine a man with a saucepan on his head. Well, if clothes don’t convey information, why not cover the bald spot on the top of your head with a saucepan? It is very convenient from the rain. Or, let’s say, why not wear a children’s panama hat with a tuxedo? Or not put old women's hats on men's heads, which are tied with ribbons at the chin? Do you want, for example, your child or your sibling to introduce such a person to you as your chosen spouse? Or will you conclude that the person is mentally inadequate because he is dressed absolutely inadequately?
That is, clothes tell a lot about a person, and it is impossible to say that clothes may not mean anything. Clothing always says enough about the owner, even if he chooses it completely unconsciously. All the same, he chooses not just rags, but things, along with their meaning, agreeing on the relevance of this meaning for himself, even if he does not specifically analyze it.
People perceive most things in the world approximately the same way, but they can formulate them differently, and some of these formulations relate to psychological defenses, and some to attempts to attack.
For example, men often say that women who dress provocatively sexually are easily accessible. And this interpretation often causes justified indignation in women. They know for sure that they are not so easily accessible, and personally they may be absolutely inaccessible to this man, so judgments like “putting on a miniskirt means she’s ready for sex with anyone” are absurd. But just as absurd are the woman’s claims that a miniskirt “means nothing, is no different from any other skirt.” A miniskirt, of course, means, but by no means easy accessibility.
Any clothing that exposes parts of the body that are usually hidden in a given culture outside of an intimate setting means a sexual challenge. But challenge should not be confused with easy accessibility. Very often, provocatively dressed women seek to demonstrate something the opposite: their sexual desirability and inaccessibility to mere mortals. That is, imagine how offended such a woman could be when she dressed up, from her point of view, like a sex star, and she was classified as easily accessible. A star is something inaccessible, something that you can only admire with your mouth open. And many women who wear very short skirts with very high heels hope that their very long legs will produce just such an effect. Observers will be in awe and shock, most will not dare to even look, so as not to go blind, and those who dare to even approach will be ready for any investment. This is roughly the picture in the minds of most of these ladies. And, of course, they are not going to communicate with their appearance that they are ready to go around the corner with any Vasya. It seems to them that there is obviously a huge number of applicants and the possibility of extreme selectivity.
Easily accessible, in the opinion of such women, are just “gray mice”. Yes, they may look sullen and wary, but as soon as a man proves his interest to them, that is, shows that he doesn’t want to laugh, but is really interested, such a woman will immediately fall in love. That is, he will not just give his body to such a man, but he will also give his heart without reserve. Isn't this accessibility?
That is, a sexual challenge is a demonstration of sexual attractiveness (as it looks in the minds of such women), and attractiveness is precisely inaccessibility. Because, since it is attractive to many, the chance of everyone having access is reduced many times. And very often a woman, even if she is dressed like the most vulgar prostitute, it seems that she looks like a million fans. Therefore, talking about her easy access can infuriate her.
Moreover, even the most vulgar prostitute does not think that she is easily accessible. She believes that she is just an expensive woman. Her non-prostitute friends sleep with men for free, and sometimes even spend money on them, and she sells every hour of her time for a fee. That is, an hour of an ordinary woman often costs nothing for her lover, except for the time spent on dinner together, but in terms of hours this is symbolic pennies, and her hour costs a real amount of money. The prostitute thinks that as soon as she saves up money, makes tuning and rents a decent apartment, its price will increase even more. While with a prostitute a man may not spend anything at all if she falls in love, with a prostitute this will not work. That is, not a single prostitute considers herself easily accessible, but knows her worth in the literal sense of the word.
As for ladies in short skirts on the streets of the city, they often see a special chic in the fact that they arouse (as it seems to them) desire in all passing men and envy in passing women, but they do not have any simple dachshund, and men are forced to roll their lips in humiliation , or take courageous part in a difficult competition for access to the body. Let’s not discuss now what kind of dreamers these ladies are if they think that exposing their legs, which most of them have are imperfect, evokes such a strong desire in men, and how they flatter these men, suggesting such a furious temperament in them. Here the ladies pass off what they want as reality. However, the fact remains. By wearing a very short skirt, a woman does not give any access to her body, but assumes that observers will simply admire, preferably sideways and meekly, afraid to raise their eyes, since a frank master's look is rudeness and a violation of personal boundaries, which women often oppose.
Another offensive and unfair remark for sexy dressed ladies is the remark of other women that such ladies strive at all costs to please men, dooming themselves to the inconvenience of heels and the discomfort of tight styles. In fact, a defiant look is more of a bid to dominate men, to manipulate their emotions and instincts, than a desire to please them. Most of these ladies are sure that any man would like to see his woman more modestly dressed and hidden from other male eyes, and their defiant appearance shows that they did not care about the claims of men. That is, there is not only no talk of servility on their part, but they demonstrate exactly the opposite - the desire for power.
Unfortunately, a challenge, a demonstration of demand, and an application for dominance are more of an illusion. In reality, there is no easy accessibility, but there is also no special demand, and if there is, then it is for the same easy access. That is, a woman dressed provocatively sexy can count on sex at a rate commensurate with the prices for prostitutes of her age and physique. She can reject such people or agree, but, thanks to her defiant appearance, she cannot count on anything qualitatively different. She, of course, cannot dominate either, except perhaps to seduce men for a short courtship ritual, which resembles submissive knightly behavior, but has as its goal the same fairly easy access.
And finally, about what is considered sexually provocative clothing. This is always a relative phenomenon that can only be assessed within a specific culture, but is recognized quite easily by all intellectually intact members of a given culture. No matter how indignant anti-ageists may be, the older a woman is, the lower the threshold for sexual challenge in clothing. What is appropriate for a girl of 18 years old (and under 15 may not be interpreted as a sexual challenge) is already indecent for a lady of 48 years old.
And the point is not only that exposing in public (not on the beach) some parts of the body that are approaching the intimate threshold (hips, stomach, chest) means very actively drawing attention to them, but specifically drawing attention to objective bodily defects - maso-exhibitionism, deviation. The point is that with age, the role of one’s own body as a resource for a woman should noticeably decrease. And if a woman is already 50 or 60 years old, and her self-identification is still connected with sexual presentation, then she has not developed other resources. Infantilism is forgivable in young people and even partly charming, but the older a person is, the more disgust his personal delay inspires. Therefore, an elderly lady in a short skirt and a deep neckline on her flabby chest evokes negative emotions in most observers, and not at all because her youth has passed, but because her youth has passed, and nothing else has appeared, since she strives to continue to demonstrate a body that has long been unable to delight anyone on its own.
Ap. Several men wrote to me in private protesting against the fact that a prostitute is worth more than a prostitute. Yes, sometimes it costs a lot more, and sometimes nothing. Such cases also happen, and there are also cases when women support lovers. I advise you to pay attention to the word “often”, that is, “an ordinary woman often costs her lover nothing but dinner together.”
This is how they began to call a wardrobe that does not need to be worn. This name has nothing to do with provincial towns or village life. It was just noticed long ago that people coming from small towns dress very conservatively. This is where this name came from.
Experts in the field of fashion and style have identified 10 signs of a provincial wardrobe. These are the most common signs, but you can clarify them if desired. These signs include: excessive gold jewelry, conservatism, black pumps, lack of variety in clothing styles, lace underwear, blouses, inability to wear tights and accessories, fear of color in clothing, use of counterfeits.
Gold
Having analyzed every sign of provincial style, you can decide on the choice of clothes and forever remember how not to dress.
The first sign is that girls and women who dress in this style prefer gold jewelry to beautiful and stylish jewelry. There is an opinion among lovers of provincial style that silver is too simple, and costume jewelry is very cheap. And preference is given to gold jewelry, which is worn without restraint. Rings on each finger, a combination of gold and silver jewelry at the same time, gold jewelry worn with a tracksuit and sports shoes - this indicates a lack of taste. Therefore, in order to look stylish and modern, you need to take your choice of jewelry seriously. Follow the rule: less is better, but better quality. You should not buy cheap gold, it looks absolutely tasteless.
Conservative
Conservativeness is the next sign of how not to dress. Modern styles allow you to express your individuality through your appearance. Youth fashion offers bright, original and comfortable clothes and accessories. In the modern concept of a stylish wardrobe, it is now possible to combine different ones to create new looks. But fashionable and bright ideas are alien to supporters of the provincial style. There is a complete lack of style, as it is simply not understood. In this case, there are clothes for work (purely business) and for leisure (sports). Even if the work does not require a dress code, then the imagination is not enough to diversify the wardrobe in order to look businesslike, but modern. You can look sporty in jeans; instead of sneakers, it is preferable to wear sneakers and sports sandals.
Cheap things
Clothes are chosen according to the principle of “cheap and discreet”. It is absolutely not taken into account that inexpensive clothes are almost always made of low quality material. This affects both the convenience of things and the health of supporters of the provincial style. Also, such things don't last long. After the first few washes, they lose their appearance; even if the fabric does not stretch, it still looks sloppy. It is better to have one quality item in your wardrobe than three bad ones. There won't be much benefit in price, but you can win in health and appearance.
Black shoes
If we consider 10 signs of a provincial wardrobe, then the fourth one will be familiar to everyone. Provinciality is not in the shoes themselves or the fact that they are black, it lies in the fact that these shoes are worn with any clothes. The inability to select and choose a variety of shoe models, the absolute ignorance of modern styles, is justified by the opinion that such shoes go with everything.
Yes, earlier, given the paucity of the range of shoes produced, this may have been true. But in the modern world, the industry, represented by both imported and domestic manufacturers, produces comfortable, stylish shoes that can be matched to any wardrobe.
Inability to wear jewelry
Properly selected accessories and jewelry successfully emphasize the image. They will make it complete. The inability to correctly combine accessories makes the image too simple and inexpressive. And when consumed excessively, they become tasteless and provocative. For representatives of this style, the inability to wear accessories is considered absolutely normal. Although now in the information space there is a great abundance of printed materials about fashion and style, starting with fashion magazines and ending with books by authoritative authors: stylists, fashion designers and designers. Television is replete with various programs about how you shouldn’t dress up.
But for this female category, there is only their purely conservative opinion, since they absolutely do not understand why inexpensive clothes will look tasteless with an expensive leather bag. And also in this case, the recommendations and criticism of experts regarding errors in creating
Sweatshirts
Provincial clothing also includes knitted sweaters and blouses that stretch, roll up and have an ugly style. As a rule, these products are made of low quality materials. Therefore, not only do they not hold their shape, but they also do not allow air to pass through and do not allow the body to breathe. This not only causes an unpleasant odor, but can also cause skin problems. Nowadays, youth fashion allows you to replace the outdated style of sweaters with sweatshirts, cardigans, jumpers, half-overalls, which are comfortable to wear, have a modern design and color, thereby allowing you to look fashionable and stylish.
Lingerie
Another of the 10 signs of a provincial wardrobe is the inability to choose underwear. Since here, in any case, they prefer to wear lingerie with an abundance of lace and rhinestones so that it looks “rich.”
And it doesn’t matter where they put it on. But there is a division of underwear. For example, if you need to go to the gym, then there are sports bras and swimming trunks that fit snugly to the body and have a breathable fabric texture. Under fitted and tight turtlenecks, you should wear models with a smooth texture, without lace or rhinestones. Then, under your clothes, your underwear will not bulge and spoil your overall appearance. Everyday models come in different types. But it is recommended to select a set consisting of a bra and panties, matching in quality and color, this is considered good form.
But it is necessary to distinguish the everyday set from erotic lingerie for special occasions. Since it is not appropriate to wear lace models with lacy garters and stockings of the appropriate nature to the office.
Tights
The inability to select and wear women's tights has taken root in the provincial wardrobe. It lies in the fact that they are worn always and everywhere, giving preference to a shiny structure. A summer dress with sandals and tights looks very ridiculous. Only representatives of business style do not walk with bare legs. They always wear tights to work in the office or to a business meeting. Therefore, the industry began to produce 8 and 12 denier models for this case. They are very thin, do not bother the wearer in hot weather and look natural in a business suit. Other representatives of different styles are recommended to wear this wardrobe item in accordance with the situation and weather. Follow fashion trends, do not wear outdated models, so as not to look stupid.
Colors
Differs in a variety of color palette. The combination of shades in clothes allows you to create an image. In youth style there is a great abundance of colors and their shades. Youth fashion sometimes uses incompatible things in clothes, achieving unexpectedly spectacular results. A sense of proportion and taste leads to the creation of something that is absolutely alien to the provincial wardrobe. It contains a lot of black, which is combined with white and red, and sometimes gray is used.
The fear of looking unstylish leads to the fact that people begin to look not only boring and stereotypical, but also create an image that does not need to be followed.
Counterfeits of branded items and accessories
Provincial-style girls give preference to branded counterfeits, not realizing that the presence of a label of a brand does not guarantee the conformity of the quality and that the item belongs to a well-known company. Especially if, for example, a bag or glasses were bought in a passage or at the market. It is better to buy a high-quality leather bag from a local manufacturer than a branded fake. After all, a fake looks cheap and vulgar. Poor-quality dark glasses not only spoil the wearer’s appearance, but can also damage vision, even causing eye burns.
A little conclusion
Having considered 10 signs of a provincial wardrobe, you can draw a conclusion and start learning to look stylish. This is not difficult to do. If there is no person nearby who understands issues of style and fashion or simply has good taste, you can get information from printed sources. Or use special resources for analysis and their combination. Don't be afraid to look stupid, as there is nothing stupider than following a provincial style. Therefore, we need to change our attitude towards these 10 signs and destroy the provincial stereotype in choosing a wardrobe.
