How to prepare for a first date? Rules of conduct on a first date. Secrets to a successful first date.
1. How to dress
On the first date, you need to consolidate your initial success. You shouldn't look provocative or wear heavy makeup. The boys don't like either one or the other. They are put off by blatant attempts to attract attention.
Therefore, give up a very short miniskirt, black nail polish and purple eye shadow.
Everything you wear should be comfortable for you. It's stupid to ruin your evening with shoes that rub your heels. They are, of course, new, beautiful and all that, but... Better soft moccasins than feet worn out in blood.
2. What time to arrive
Previously, there was an opinion that a woman should be a little late on a date with a man. Nowadays, punctuality is increasingly valued. Plus or minus a minute or two is normal. But they are unlikely to wait for you for twenty minutes. Or they will wait, but only once. There will be no second date.
3. Where to go
On the first date, they go to the cinema, to a cafe, or take a walk in the park during the day.
Meeting during the day is safe and easy. You don’t know your new friend, what if he has something bad on his mind?
Don’t delay your first date, time will fly by, you will have to return home late, it may be unsafe. Don't allow yourself to be escorted home. If the gentleman turns out to be “with greetings”, it is better if he does not know where you live, besides, the entrance and elevator can become a trap for you, do not agree to go to visit him. Don't invite him to your place. Alone with him at home, or, especially, at his place, you are very vulnerable.
❢ “So many restrictions!” - you say. No. This is a basic precaution. And remember: appearances can be deceiving.
4. Immediately define the boundaries of what is permitted.
At first, boys like to introduce themselves as heroes and brag about their exploits. They have few achievements so far. Who beat whom where and who drank how much.
These are not topics of conversation, do not support them. Show right away that drinking and fighting are not interesting to you. That you will not allow swearing or unflattering comments about anyone in your presence.
Whether you kiss in public places, or whether to allow him to hug you in public, thereby demonstrating his right over you, is at your discretion. If you like it, if it pleases you, allow whatever you want.
Of course, it's better not to do this. A guy should respect and appreciate you.
5. First date
On the first date, you meet and have a nice conversation. You can let him take your hand. But not more. For now you are just getting to know each other.
Take your time, take a closer look at it, think about it. Is that how you want to start a relationship with him?
6. Second date
Yeah, somehow you still liked each other, since you agreed to meet again.
The second date is the hardest. There is already some impression, now the main thing is not to destroy it. Now you can allow yourself to be kissed on the cheek, hugged.
7. Third date
Is everything really going as well as possible? The guy is clearly interested in you. And you’re not bored with him either. You can allow him more. How far it goes depends on your desire, my advice is don’t rush. Don't give him everything at once. What does a boy of fifteen or sixteen want? Either find a playmate or satisfy your sexual interest. Some are more restrained, others less so.
What do you want? To be loved and taken care of. Sex now may interest you only theoretically - what it is, and how it is. Do you want this yourself? Hardly. So there's no need to rush. Wait until you're ready for this. In the meantime, instead of pleasure, you will get a lot of problems. Be especially careful with guys older than you. By the age of seventeen, boys begin a period of hypersexuality.
By the way, hugs and kisses also refer to sexual relations. Why not study this first?
8. Expensive gift
A boy giving a girl a gift is normal. He likes her, he wants to please her. As long as you don't earn money yourself, gifts should be simple or homemade. No gold earrings or platinum rings.
Firstly, it is simply not customary to take expensive gifts. There is always a price to pay for such offerings. Moreover, it is not known where your beloved got such money, did dad give it to him? So, will he survive at the expense of his father all his life?
Secondly, the gifts that you give each other should be approximately in the same price category - cards, soft toys, key chains, trinkets. Then you will be comfortable with each other. If one of you starts throwing money around, the other one will feel somewhat inferior.
9. Think about the consequences
The task is difficult. Especially when you don’t know what to be afraid of. Knowledge usually comes with experience, but there are cases when it is better to benefit from the experience of others than to make mistakes yourself.
Women are famous for their ability to calculate the situation several moves ahead; men usually do not look far. But in the matter of personal relationships they change places. The girl can’t even imagine what’s going on in the guy’s head. And often not the best thoughts are floating around there.
If you nevertheless agreed to come visit the guy, then he will probably try to persuade you to have sex. Did you really hope until the last moment that you were really invited to drink tea and listen to music? The most common misconception. If you are not ready for sex or are not sure that your refusal will be accepted normally, do not agree to go on a visit. Only during the day and only for tea, and so that my parents are at home. You stand on the threshold, you see that you have deceived, your parents are not there - goodbye! She turned around and left. This is a clear sign that he deceived you for a reason, but for a specific purpose, and your goals clearly do not coincide.
If you still decide to set sail as an adult, although fourteen is not the right age, always take precautions! Why do you need extra problems? And they will appear for you immediately - sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. Let your boyfriend assure you that he is clean, healthy, and does not have a certificate stuck to his forehead.
And protect yourself with condoms. It is unlikely that your growing body will adequately accept strong “adult” pills.
And don’t hope that it will “carry over”, it won’t, it will catch on. Not now, but later. It will be too late to groan.
10. Trust but verify
The young man can be as nice as he likes, but it still wouldn’t hurt to make inquiries about him.
If you go to school together, then it’s clear - everyone is your own. If he is a couple of years older than you, ask his classmates what he is like. you can learn a lot of unexpected things.
If you met a guy at a party, then ask his friends what he usually does, what kind of relationship he has with his friends. The information will obviously be useful. You can find out something from the guy himself, although sometimes it is inconvenient to be interested - he will think that he is being interrogated. Boys can sometimes be terribly suspicious.
11. Keep everything under control
The long-awaited event has happened - you have been invited on a date. You fly on the wings of love, get ready, buy new shoes, design a hairstyle, rent a stylish watch from a friend.
Tell your parents or girlfriend where you are going and with whom you are going, state his first and last name, where you met and where he lives or studies. In a word, lay out all the information about him.
For what? You never know. There are different situations in life. What if we urgently need to find you or don’t come home at the promised time? I don’t want to scare you, but such a precaution is not superfluous. She saved the girls' lives more than once.
12. Don't hide your emotions
Many girls think that if she sits like an ice statue on a date, it will make her seem mysterious.
Maybe. But if a guy immediately encounters isolation and tightness, this may scare him away. So don't be afraid to show your emotions.
Did you enjoy walking with him in the park? Say so. Don't you want to sit on the bench anymore? Tell me about that too. Only then will you have a normal relationship, you will understand and hear each other. The boys are slow-witted and can’t read minds. He hugs and kisses you, deciding that you enjoy it too, and you sit and wonder when this will finally end. What's the fun in this?
Tell him! Talk about everything! Gradually you will understand what is not worth talking about and what must be posted. In the meantime, don’t be shy.
13. Don't be smart
What you definitely shouldn’t do is show off your education. Guys don't like it. They prefer to be smart themselves. Therefore, evaluate the mental abilities of your gentleman and play a girl a little dumber than him.
Quotes from Nietzsche, Kant and Hegel are not welcome! reciting chapters from “Eugene Onegin” by heart is best left for another company.
On a date, you should be smiling, good-natured, and funny. Be flirty. Make eyes, smile, be spontaneous, flatter a little, be a little capricious. In general - be a woman!
14. Friends and girlfriends
When your relationship is just starting and you are going crazy with love and happiness, you want to tell the whole world about your joy. You go to your friends, to your mother, to your relatives. You are eager to introduce him to everyone around you.
There is both a good side and a bad side to this.
It’s good when others appreciate your boyfriend and, if anything, take off your rose-colored glasses. After all, in the first days of relationships with guys, we really don’t notice a lot.
The bad thing is that the guy himself may not like the fact that he is openly shown to everyone. Yes, and it is dangerous to introduce an attractive young man to your girlfriends.
And the point is not that they are your friends and would never do anything mean to you. Simply, by telling them about your feelings, about how wonderful, handsome, smart, kind he is, you will convince your friends of his exclusivity, “infect” them with your love. Therefore, they will look at your chosen one with your “in love” eyes, look for and find all the good qualities that you saw.
All this could end sadly; one of his friends will really fall in love with him. Therefore, if you are not one hundred percent sure of the normal outcome of such an acquaintance, it is better not to involve your girlfriends in your love affairs. Or limit ourselves to oral stories only. Everyone will live more peacefully.
Today we will talk about how to behave correctly with men on a first date.
Wanting to find a man for a serious relationship or marriage, women are too often guided by the rule “choose not with your mind, but with your heart,” which often backfires: they, based on two or three qualities of a new acquaintance, create an image in their head - an ideal to which their heart , of course, never remains indifferent.
As a result, sooner or later an epiphany occurs: representatives of the fair sex suddenly realize that they chose “the wrong one” who they needed, because at the first stage of the relationship - when they met and on the first date - they stubbornly did not want to see this man in a real light, because he was eclipsed by an invented ideal image.
How to choose the right man for a serious relationship
Many “experienced” and psychologically “savvy” men (who, by the way, would also benefit from reading this article), knowing female psychology, specifically use some methods to appear before an “inexperienced” lady “in all her glory” and seduce her as quickly as possible her.Of course, some of these men really want a serious relationship, but, nevertheless, creating an attractive image for a new acquaintance does not always play into their hands, because after some time they still begin to show their true colors, which does not always suit the lover into the ideal woman.
As a result, both sides suffer: the man - because the woman stopped liking him, the woman - because the man turned out to be not what he initially looked like.
Today we will continue to talk about the topic, and specifically, what you should pay attention to on the first date, so as not to make a mistake and understand whether this person is right for you or not, and also find out whether he is serious or just wants to spend the night with you.
Serious man asks a lot of questions
On the first date, every woman should pay attention to how communication with a new acquaintance goes: is he interested in you, asks questions, or prefers to shower well-rehearsed compliments, sometimes making you blush?
If a man asks you a lot of questions, some of which may be somewhat uncomfortable, then he is most likely serious. The first date between two people who are determined to create a serious relationship is an “interview” where both parties seek to find out whether their goals for each other coincide.
Therefore, a man needs to find out how suitable you are for him! He may ask you about your achievements, what you are most proud of, about your interests and hobbies, about your long-term plans and goals, about your values and priorities.
He will also most likely ask about your former relationship, since it is important for him to know why it ended and how many there were.A serious person often asks questions about the family of a new acquaintance: about how she relates to her parents, how her parents relate to each other, what her parents do, and so on - because a woman in a relationship very often copies her mother’s behavior model.
If he doesn’t ask questions, but prefers to give you detailed, beautiful and embarrasing compliments and smile seductively throughout the date, most likely he doesn’t need a serious relationship. He has no need to get to know you better, because everything he needs to know about you (namely, whether you are suitable for him in appearance), he has already learned, or rather, seen.
Ask the right questions on the first date
On the first date, you should also ask the man questions to see how he will answer them. It is especially important here to ask the RIGHT questions. Ask him what his goals and values are, what he does in life, what he wants to achieve. Ask him what he values most and is proud of.
Try to find out as much as possible about his surroundings: family, friends, colleagues. Pay attention to the way in which he speaks about the above-mentioned people.
Basic psychology of first dates and acquaintances
Believe me, this is not at all useless information, even if you don’t know anything about any of them yet, because this is how experienced businessmen interview new employees, trying to understand how they will approach work in the future.
So, if you don’t mind applying at least the basics of psychology on the first date, then keep in mind: if your chosen one speaks negatively about someone (blames him for all his problems, scolds, condemns and criticizes) - then this is the first alarming sign. Most likely, if you find yourself around this person, he will also judge and criticize you, since this is his way of communicating with people.If a man is inclined to complain about life, that he is surrounded only by stupid people who do not even try to understand him, that no one loves or appreciates him, who is kind and wonderful, then be even more wary.
Most likely, such a person does not know how and does not like to take responsibility even for his own life - what can we say about family and children!
Usually the worldview of such a person is contained in one simple phrase : “Everyone owes me”. If you enter into a relationship with a man who holds this opinion, then you will always be “in his debt,” and everything you do will be “wrong” for him. Do you need this?
How to spot deception
If your new acquaintance generally tries to “excuse” direct answers, uses only general phrases that do not provide any specific information, then, most likely, he does not want you to know much about him. This means that he is not too interested in a serious relationship, or is simply trying to hide who he really is.
For example, if when asked what he does, a man answers something like “yes, I have one business...”, and does not tell what kind of business it is, what exactly he does in this business, what he is attracted to him - he does not want to talk about himself, or he is simply, as people say, “fibbing.”
Usually businessmen, and simply successful men doing what they love, are people who doubly love recognition, so they are always happy to share information about their life’s work with a girl, expecting admiration from her.
If a man, when communicating with you, focuses on the material component, constantly emphasizing that he is very rich, casually mentioning a “cool” car, a huge mansion where he lives alone, how he constantly goes on vacation to the most expensive resorts - this is a sure sign that he is throwing dust in your eyes.
Very often there is nothing good behind this, neither in the soul nor in the pocket. Usually the purpose of such behavior is the desire to make you “float”, understand that you cannot miss such an enviable match, and immediately jump into his bed.
Man's communication style
On your first date with a stranger, pay close attention not only to how the man treats you, but also to the style of his communication with waiters and restaurant administration. If your new acquaintance allows himself to be rude and rude to the service staff, swear at him, look down on him, if he does not thank the workers for the food and drinks they brought, this is an alarming sign.
If you subsequently enter into a serious relationship with such a man, then it may well turn out that after some time he will treat you in exactly the same way.
It often happens that such people are simply emotionally unrestrained and can allow themselves to take out their anger and irritation on others, which then often leads to family violence. If you don’t pay attention to this at the dating stage, don’t complain later and don’t say that we didn’t warn you.
Nonverbal cues
There is no need to turn a blind eye to such an important thing as nonverbalism. A man who needs a girl for one night will try to close the distance between you as quickly as possible. For example, he will gradually move closer to you, lean forward, try to casually touch you, or put his hand on the back of your chair.
In general, I urge you to pay very close attention to both verbal and non-verbal “signals”: all of this together will help you find out what goals a person is pursuing and what exactly he needs from you.If a man compliments you too smoothly, putting his hand to his chest at the right moment, throwing his head up, throwing admiring glances at you - that is, if it all looks like a well-rehearsed performance - you should be wary: perhaps this text, supported by gestures, is he I’ve already repeated it to several girls, and just today!
In reality, many men who really like a woman are always a little shy and can behave awkwardly, even if they are successful in business, but in everyday communication they always act confidently and relaxed. But, please, do not go too far with suspicion, because, of course, there are also very experienced men who want a stable and serious relationship, but, unfortunately, there are not many of them.
How to recognize a responsible man
Be careful when the date comes to an end. A responsible man will offer to take you home or call and pay for a taxi for you. Such behavior suggests that the man is not indifferent to you, at least he cares about your safety.
Such a person in the future will take responsibility for the family and will do this quite naturally, not forcedly, since taking responsibility for himself is a common thing for him.
If a man invites you to either go with him to his house, or, if you refuse, says goodbye and leaves, because “unfortunately, he’s not on the same page with you,” it’s better not to meet such a man again: most likely, he He is only interested in intimacy for today, and he is not going to wait even for a second date.
So, today we looked at some methods that will help you behave correctly with a man on a first date, as well as signs by which you can recognize in a new acquaintance a man who is serious about you, while weeding out pick-up artists, tyrants or egoists, which you simply shouldn’t waste your precious time on.
We hope our advice will help you find a worthy person for a long-term relationship in which you will be truly happy, which is what we wish for you. Stay tuned for new and interesting materials, and don’t forget to read the first part of this article about this and that.
Be prepared to make decisions. If the person you're going on a date with asks you about where you want to hang out, don't be afraid to voice your opinion. Most likely, in this way he shows attention to you, offering to make his choice. Show that you can make decisions.
Choose an activity during which you can interact with a person. For example, watching a movie together is not a good idea because you won't have the opportunity to get to know the person better. Have a cup of coffee together or visit a museum. Make time for communication.
Be punctual. Being late means that you do not value time and the person you made wait. Therefore, arrive on your date on time or a little earlier than the appointed time.
Don't be indifferent. If you show indifference or indifference, you are unlikely to develop a close relationship with the person. Just be yourself. Don't be afraid to show emotions.
- For example, if a person invites you to the cinema, you should not limit yourself to just the following phrase: “I liked this movie.” Don't be afraid to show your enthusiasm. You can say: "I really liked this movie! The main character in the movie was amazing!"
Turn off your phone. Unless you're a doctor who needs to be always available, you can get by without your phone during a date. Show the person that you value his time and the attention he shows to you. You can do this if you are not distracted by phone calls or messages.
Take a deep breath. If you're too stressed, the person you're going on a date with will definitely feel it. Take a moment to relax. Enjoy communicating with this person.
Have a good time. The date should take place in a pleasant and fun atmosphere. If you enjoy communication, then your companion will certainly be pleased with the time spent with you.
Listen at least as much as you speak. The art of listening is equivalent to the art of speaking well. Therefore, listen to your interlocutor. Try to hear what your companion wants to convey to you. At this time, you should not think about what you will say next. When you answer your interlocutor, show that you are listening carefully.
- If your date says that he likes to garden, don't respond by saying that you are far from it. Ask questions related to what the person is interested in. For example, you could ask, "Really? What do you like to grow? Do you have a big garden?"
Hello dear readers of the Samprosvetbyulleten blog!
“Tell me how to behave on a date at the beginning of acquaintance? He told me that he could talk to me for hours. It has never been as easy for me to communicate with anyone as with him. But suddenly he lost interest. Inexplicably? Nothing happened after all. This could have been the most promising relationship I've had in the last 3 years and it ended so stupidly. Or rather, I suspect that I behaved incorrectly on the date, I was too happy that I found him and was on the rise, I was a little nervous. The last time he looked at me strangely. Maybe he decided that I was nervous? — writes Maria.
“I haven’t dated anyone for a long time, I wanted to come to my senses after a divorce. Now I met a man who would suit me well, but apparently I don’t know how to behave on a date and scared him. Although it seemed to me that everything was going well, I I joked, so did he, we laughed, I felt very lively next to him. It seemed to me that we were the perfect couple! It’s a shame that there is no continuation in sight. Not that, but he stopped calling me himself. And when I call, he of course he’s polite, but I feel like he no longer has that spark for me,” writes Alice.
We don't always know what we're doing wrong and why a man loses interest. Sometimes the reason is in ourselves, sometimes in the man himself, sometimes in something else. It takes a lot of effort and courage for some women to admit that they made mistakes that caused a man to stop being interested in them.
Each meeting and date is its own unique story, which can develop into a love story or leave only a slight trace in memory. There are no rules or one size fits all recommendations. The main thing is to follow the voice of your heart and common sense.
True, there are some behavioral features that we do not always notice in ourselves, although they can greatly ruin the situation. In this article I want to show you what you need to pay attention to.
How to behave on a date
1. Set up your energy correctly
Many people are nervous and this is natural. The only problem is that sometimes this excitement develops into nervousness. The woman begins to speak too quickly, in a raised voice, and laughs excitedly at every little joke the man makes. Often a woman does not notice her nervousness; it seems to her that she has only begun to behave more lively.
The bad thing here is that an anxious woman is perceived by a man as having a tendency to control others because she talks a lot, dominates the topic of conversation and fills the atmosphere with tension.
If you feel like you've become too lively and expressive on a date, then you might be nervous. Try to take care of yourself. One way to determine your energy level is to check your pulse. If your pulse is too fast, you feel like blood is pulsating through your veins, try to control yourself. If possible, get alone, close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, try to relax. Adapt to the man's energy level.
2. Give him the opportunity to lead.
There is another reason why it is important to be in a calm state. This will allow the man to take the lead on the date. In communication, someone always leads. At the very beginning of dating, it is wise to give the man the opportunity to lead to see what he is like.
If you give a man complete initiative, you can see what type of leader he is. Is he strong enough to be a partner you can rely on? Or is he passive and in his life, will he wait for a hint on what to do? You won't know this unless you give him a chance to take the lead and take the initiative.
If you trust his initiative during the date, you will also give him the opportunity to feel his masculinity, which is very pleasant for men. They are drawn to women, next to whom their masculine qualities are enhanced.
3. Don't get ahead of yourself, live in the moment.
You may never have thought about it, but it can be very frustrating for men when they can't live up to your expectations. It's not uncommon to hear men complain about women who always want something from them. For example, confirmation that their relationship is serious, spending more time together, or marriage proposals.
And it’s true, women very often get ahead of themselves and start worrying about the future:
- “Will the relationship work out with him?”;
- “is he serious with me?”;
- “he is the most delightful man I have met in recent years!”;
- “maybe it’s HIM?”;
- " for him?".
The moment you place your expectations in the current situation, you begin to live more in the future than in the present. You begin to expect from a man what he cannot give you right now. He sees your expectations and perceives them as pressure on himself. When a man feels pressured, his natural reaction is to resist the pressure.
If you like a man because you hope to be in a relationship with him, or you like a relationship because it might end in marriage, realize that you are already creating a big barrier to that all happening. Avoid situations where your expectations make him feel pressured.
Think back to your past dates. Did you expect a relationship with a man or were you happy just to be around him? Did he sense that you wanted something from him that he couldn't give you right now?
A man will not continue dating a woman if he cannot meet her expectations.
Read about other situations that may arise on dates in the next issues of Samprosvetbyulletin!
How to behave on a first date It is equally interesting for many girls and boys. Perhaps due to lack of experience or due to the fact that they simply forgot the time of their first meetings and acquaintances. This is a fairly common occurrence and nothing to be ashamed of. But to screw up due to incorrect behavior, forcing events and inflated demands is shameful! We suggest you consider some useful tips that will help you create a good impression of yourself.
First, keep in mind that the first impression is formed within 15 minutes of conversation. In this case, girls only need 40 seconds to evaluate their partner. Therefore, during the period of visual contact, it is important to monitor your gait, gestures and facial expressions. Go!
How to impress on a first date?
On a first date, a lot depends on even a banal greeting. Luckily, I came across the book “Games People Play.” This work perfectly addresses the issue related to greetings. It may be difficult to believe that a banal “hello” can be said in so many different ways that you will charm some people while letting others know that you are not interested in their company.
So, on the first date, girls’ greetings should combine a touch of embarrassment and charm. A timid and shy “hello” will charm any guy.
Any guy should say hello in a confident, bold tone. In this case, in no case will your “hello”, “hello”, etc. should not be accompanied by a bad smile.
Sometimes success on a first date is doomed to failure due to poor eye contact. You can't study a girl with too close a gaze. Keep in mind that each of them is too concerned about how she looks in the eyes of the guy. It is much more appropriate, after a “visual inspection,” to make several subtle but accurate hits regarding its appearance than to eat it with your eyes. Make sure your look doesn't get boring.
It is important for girls to lower their eyes in a timely manner. It is important that the guy feels comfortable. To feel that his gaze causes embarrassment. Thus, everything will proceed in the most comfortable environment for both sexes.
If your views touch each other as part of an interesting conversation, remember one important thing that Allan Pease beautifully revealed in his work. Perhaps I'm wrong about the author. But the book is definitely dedicated to facial expressions and gestures. In general, our view has a unique feature. With the right gaze, people will like you. It's important to keep your eyes lit. To do this, during eye contact, imagine something that brings you joy and happiness. In this case, the effect will be charming. Your look will gain charm. You can be sure that all successful people and movie stars use this trick. They are taught this in special educational institutions. Did not know? Then let's continue.
Many guys make the mistake of trying to take a girl's hand in a way that isn't shy or too brazen. It should be understood that girls feel any uncertainty. They are much more developed than us in terms of assessment. It is important to remain calm at every stage. It largely depends on the girl. If there is some tension from the very beginning, then don’t worry about fanaticism and perseverance. Just end the evening right. If all is well, you should use one of several tips:
- The first touch to a girl's hand should not be intrusive. Run the tip of your hand over her finger.
- There are several options for taking a girl by the hand. If you have already made the first contact, you can continue in the same smooth spirit. Grab your little finger with your little finger. If she doesn't remove her hand, take it and run away! Just kidding, keep up the good work.
- It's important not to ruin everything. There shouldn't be much touching. In addition, your hands tend to sweat. Don't cause discomfort.
Now you are already walking hand in hand. But where?
If you are not 30 years old... And you are younger, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading how to behave on a first date, then pay attention! There is such a thing as the principle of mutual exchange. On the first date, it is not recommended to pay for a girl. This can ruin everything, because the girl will feel entitled, and this is not always good. Whatever one may say, it is better to avoid awkward moments.
Alternatively, meet in pairs on the first date. In this case it will be more fun. Many girls take girlfriends. Honestly, it annoys me, and I think a lot of guys do too. But that's the point. If you know there will be a girlfriend, take a friend! Then thank him if the girlfriend is not very good. As a rule, this happens, because they do not bring with them girls who outshine them. You can take the same friend who constantly jokes and doesn’t bother you with questions. Then the question of where to go will not make sense. It's fun everywhere with friends like these!
